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讓女人婚姻幸福的十條黃金法則 呂華蕙同學分享

From: flora lu <floralulu@gmail.com>Date: Feb 20, 2009 11:47 PMSubject: Fwd: Fw: 讓女人婚姻幸福的十條黃金法則

讓女人婚姻幸福的十條黃金法則 每一個步入婚姻殿堂的女人，在走上紅地毯的那一刻，就在心中默默的祈禱，自己一定要做一個全天下婚姻最幸福的女人。然而，婚後她們往往把獲得幸福的權利交給了老公、交給了孩子、交給了公公婆婆，忽視了自我。等到發現自己的婚姻並沒有像自己期望的那般幸福時，便又陷入了無休止的抱怨之中，變成了一個十足的怨婦。其實她們都忘記了，幸福，是掌握在自己的手中的。究竟做一個什麼樣的女人才會幸福呢，滑鼠在這裡總結了十條法則，與大家共勉。　　
一. 保持經濟獨立　　很多女人覺得把自己一嫁就萬事OK了，覺得有了依靠，有了養活自己的人。便閉門家中坐，錢從丈夫身上來，甘願在家裡做起全職太太。卻不知道這樣的危險性，長期下去，你在這個家庭中就會慢慢失去說話的地位，就會慢慢變成一個黃臉婆。想想一個女人如果迅速的從一個黃花少女變成一個黃臉婆，丈夫都懶的再多看你一眼，你的幸福從何談起呢。因此記住，哪怕你嫁的是一個億萬富翁，也記得一定要出去工作，保持經濟的獨立性，相當重要。　　

二. 保持性格獨立　　很多女人婚前本來活潑開朗，喜歡唱歌、跳舞，喜歡和一群姐妹出去逛街購物。婚後卻是，喜怒哀樂圍著老公轉，身子圍著廚房轉，完全失去了本來的性格。記住，為新的家庭付出自己勞動自然很必要的，但是為了保持家庭的繁榮與穩定，還是要保持自己的性格獨立，經常從事一些自己喜歡的事情，別一結婚之後就從閨蜜隊伍裡自動消失。這樣，你在老公眼裡，才會一直保持著那份神秘感，你的婚姻才會走向幸福。　　

三. 保持人格獨立　　結婚不是賣身為奴，不是做丫鬟，做婢女，更不是做老公的附屬品。別老說什麼離了丈夫你就不能活了之類的話，這樣只會讓他瞧不起你。保持自己的獨立人格，這樣丈夫才會尊重你，公婆也才會拿你當女兒看。你才有資格獲得一個幸福的婚姻。

四. 保持身體神秘　　許多女人以為，婚後滿足丈夫的生理需要是為人妻子應盡的義務，便毫無節制的讓丈夫為所欲為。自己在家裡也不注意，也不洗臉，也不化妝，整天穿個內衣就在房間裡跑來跑去。開始還好，等新鮮勁一過，丈夫就倒足了胃口，看也不看你一眼。所以，要想保持熱情，保持夫妻生活的長久甜蜜，還是要保持身體的神秘感。別忘了，和諧完美的夫妻生活可是婚姻幸福的良好基石。　　

五. 保持浪漫情懷　　男人天生對於浪漫之類的東西不是很敏感，你的生日，你們的結婚紀念日，包括他自己的生日，他會因為忙於工作而常常忘記。保持浪漫情懷的任務，就落到了你的肩上。記得在你們浪漫的日子裡給丈夫一點提示，丈夫在收到你的提示之後，會懂得給你一點浪漫的表示的，夫妻嘛，給點提示不是什麼丟人的事情。總比你等來等去，等到老公忘記了，你也不給提示，只是坐在家裡哭鼻子要強的多吧。不要只是埋怨丈夫忘記這些日子，這些真的不是丈夫故意忘記的，是他真的不善於記住這些日子。給他一點提示，就什麼問題都解決了，何樂而不為呢。　　

六. 保持身材苗條　　不要老是問男人為什麼都喜歡苗條女生這樣的傻話，既然知道你的男人喜歡苗條身材，那你就努力保持住嘛，別婚前像個小天使，婚後卻變成了小盼盼。看了這一條，你也不要害怕，我不是讓大家都把體重都減到一百斤以下。你只要保持自己的身材在產後比產前不要超過十斤重，我想你的丈夫應該是可以接受的。　　

七. 保持樂觀自信　　都說自信的女人最美，這話一點不假，很多女人其實明明長的非常漂亮，卻整天拿這個鏡子，逢人就問，我還是那麼漂亮嗎？其實，這是極度缺乏自信和極度自戀的一種表現，缺乏自信的女人讓人沉悶，自戀的女人又讓人噁心。因此，婚後保持樂觀自信，非常重要。那份溫文爾雅的韻味比一個漂亮的臉蛋更加讓你的丈夫流連往返。

八. 保持溫柔大方　　無論你的心裡受了多大的委屈，記住千萬別學母夜叉，別玩那些歇斯底里的東西，每個男人都討厭這個，這只會讓你的丈夫情不自禁的賞你兩個耳光。記住，男人最怕的是女人的溫柔，林黛玉的梨花帶雨遠比王熙鳳的刁鑽潑辣要有殺傷力的多。　　

九. 保持理解萬歲　　無論你承認與否，在社會上打拼，現在還是男人占主導地位，這與男權女權無關，而是由於男人與女人的體能差異和思維方式的差異而導致了在社會生活中的分工不同。在這個社會上打拼，男人真的很累，有時候回到家裡，他也真不想穿著臭烘烘的襪子就躺到床上去，他實在是太累了，一回到那個溫暖的港灣，他的精神就徹底鬆懈了。這個時候，你還忍心去逼著他把襪子脫掉，還會忍心因為他競爭上崗輸給了隔壁五老二對著他大哄大叫，還會忍心追問他為什麼1號發了工資到了2號還沒上繳嗎？如果你也在工作，稍微用點心，其實你真的應該能理解的。多一些理解，少一些怒吼；多一些寬容，少一些抱怨，你的婚姻將會幸福很多。　　

十. 保持家庭和睦　　每個人都會與自己的親生父母和睦相處，這個勿需多言。我這裡說的，是要和你公婆和睦相處。有的女人說，我每次都給公婆買很貴的營養品，很貴的衣服，我這還不是想和他們和睦嗎？其實，家庭和睦的重點，並不在於你買了多少東西，重點在於氣順，在於不要和老人逗嘴，不要惹老人生氣。的確，有的老人是會故意找茬，難道你就不能讓他們一下，就一定要和他們吵個天翻地覆嗎？別忘了你正處在人生的黃金時期，老人卻到了人生的末期了。說話的時候讓他們一句，別得理不讓人，他們開心了，你自己的心裡自然也會痛快了。送人玫瑰，手留餘香，就是這個道理。試想你和公婆的關係和睦了，你的老公能不好好對你嗎？你的婚姻還能不幸福嗎？

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Dear all：
以下的訊息是在ptt澎湖版看到的一則轉錄資訊。
若是各位家中有不要的一些物品（如下列清單所示），
希望大家可以踴躍支持一下七美雙湖國小的義賣活動
本次義賣活動目的是為了要讓七美雙湖國小的學生當作畢業旅行的經費。
請大家多多支持與轉寄。

作者: bluesnow258 (．＿．?) 看板: PH-sea標題: [哈拉] 七美鄉雙湖國小義賣活動募物中時間: Thu Feb 19 22:59:09 2009
在看ptt公益版時 發現此訊息
澎湖縣七美鄉雙湖國小今年三月將舉辦跳蚤市場義賣活動，
募集物資至2009/03/15止
http://www.tlps.phc.edu.tw/introindex.php
大家如果手邊有多餘的物資
不妨整理一下 捐贈給他們吧！
可以用郵局便利箱寄至下述地址：
88341 澎湖縣七美鄉西湖村七鄰九號 雙湖國小 林瑞鳳老師 收
連絡電話：0919-345092／學校電話 06-9971018
也可以寄ptt站內信與 m34238板友連絡 ，
或E-mail：tiny1011.tw@yahoo.com.tw
根據公益版所敘述
募集項目包括 (二手的也可以)：
書籍：故事書、漫畫書、繪本、著色本..等文具：原子筆、資料夾、便利貼、貼紙、便條紙、卡片、筆記本、削筆器..等等)玩偶：絨毛娃娃、玩具、公仔、扭蛋兒童玩具：益智玩具、小車車裝飾品：相框、音樂盒、項鍊、手機吊飾等等 生活用品：杯子、書夾、鬧鐘、燭臺、薰香.... 保養品：試用包，或其他 (要賣給婆婆媽媽的) CD/VCD/DVD (有許多小朋友也是很迷偶像的)
跳蚤市場義賣活動預計在 2009/03/21(六) 舉辦。
義賣所得將作為學童畢旅經費。
寄送前，易碎物請小心包裝。
好心會有好報的 \(^▽^)/

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美國第44任總統歐巴馬（Barack Obama）就職演說

http://taiwanun.com/blog/2009/01/20/%E6%AD%90%E5%B7%B4%E9%A6%AC%E5%B0%B1%E8%81%B7%E6%BC%94%E8%AA%AA-%E8%8B%B1%E6%96%87%E5%85%A8%E6%96%87/

http://www.wretch.cc/blog/chengchunhao/22109543

http://huskychichi.blogspot.com/2009/01/president-barack-obamas-inaugural.html

http://udn.com/NEWS/WORLD/WORS3/4701225.shtml

My fellow citizens:I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors. I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition.
Forty-four Americans have now taken the presidential oath. The words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace. Yet, every so often the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms. At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because We the People have remained faithful to the ideals of our forbearers, and true to our founding documents.
So it has been. So it must be with this generation of Americans.
That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood. Our nation is at war, against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred. Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age. Homes have been lost; jobs shed; businesses shuttered. Our health care is too costly; our schools fail too many; and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.
These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land - a nagging fear that America’s decline is inevitable, and that the next generation must lower its sights.
Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real. They are serious and they are many. They will not be met easily or in a short span of time. But know this, America - they will be met.
On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.
On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics.
We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.
In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given. It must be earned. Our journey has never been one of short-cuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the faint-hearted - for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things - some celebrated but more often men and women obscure in their labor, who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom.
For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life.
For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth.
For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sahn.
Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life. They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.
This is the journey we continue today. We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished. But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions - that time has surely passed. Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America.
For everywhere we look, there is work to be done. The state of the economy calls for action, bold and swift, and we will act - not only to create new jobs, but to lay a new foundation for growth. We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together. We will restore science to its rightful place, and wield technology’s wonders to raise health care’s quality and lower its cost. We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories. And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age. All this we can do. And all this we will do.
Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions - who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short. For they have forgotten what this country has already done; what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage.
What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them - that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply. The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works - whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified. Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward. Where the answer is no, programs will end. And those of us who manage the public’s dollars will be held to account - to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day - because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.
Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill. Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control - and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous. The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our Gross Domestic Product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on our ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart - not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.
As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our Founding Fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience’s sake. And so to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born: know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman, and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and that we are ready to lead once more.
Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with sturdy alliances and enduring convictions. They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use; our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.
We are the keepers of this legacy. Guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort - even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan. With old friends and former foes, we will work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the specter of a warming planet. We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defense, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you.
For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus - and non-believers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth; and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace.
To the Muslim world, we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect. To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict, or blame their society’s ills on the West - know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy. To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history; but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist.
To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow; to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds. And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to suffering outside our borders; nor can we consume the world’s resources without regard to effect. For the world has changed, and we must change with it.
As we consider the road that unfolds before us, we remember with humble gratitude those brave Americans who, at this very hour, patrol far-off deserts and distant mountains. They have something to tell us today, just as the fallen heroes who lie in Arlington whisper through the ages. We honor them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service; a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves. And yet, at this moment - a moment that will define a generation - it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all.
For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies. It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours. It is the firefighter’s courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent’s willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate.
Our challenges may be new. The instruments with which we meet them may be new. But those values upon which our success depends - hard work and honesty, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism - these things are old. These things are true. They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history. What is demanded then is a return to these truths. What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility - a recognition, on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation, and the world, duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task.
This is the price and the promise of citizenship.
This is the source of our confidence - the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny.
This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed - why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent mall, and why a man whose father less than sixty years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.
So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have traveled. In the year of America’s birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river. The capital was abandoned. The enemy was advancing. The snow was stained with blood. At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:
“Let it be told to the future world…that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive…that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet [it].”
America. In the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children’s children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God’s grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations.

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呂華蕙同學來函

寄件人flora lu <floralulu@gmail.com>收件人johnsun hsu3 <johnsun.hsu3@gmail.com>
日期2009年1月18日 上午 4:31主旨Re: 沉思語錄 擷取太陽 Lobo Stoney

瓊信同學你好

多謝你的e-mail,多變化，有創意，滿足了視覺、聽覺，還可以跟著唱歌，真的好享受。不敢獨享，還轉親朋好友共享，大家都謝我，而今天我該謝你，你好偉大。有句話說 ：一個人的偉大，不在於他有多富有，而在於他幫多少人。而你提供精神糧食給好多朋友同學們。

you are woderful

祝你春節愉快平安健康，有机會代問老師同學好！

華蕙上

http://www.lupearl.com/tw/coral_index.html

http://picasaweb.google.com/johnsun.hsu3/2008B02#

每日一笑

天籟美聲

吳正章會長來函

寄件人wu5878 <wu5878@mail.scjh.tcc.edu.tw>回覆至wu5878@mail.scjh.tcc.edu.tw
收件人"johnsun.hsu3" <johnsun.hsu3@gmail.com>
日期2009年1月15日 上午 9:20主旨Re: Fwd: [澎湖縣 省立馬中初中26屆 高中20屆同學會]

2009年了，首先要祝福永發同學事業興盛，大發利市，此後2年有勞您了。2008末2009初，我在上海兒子家，天冷兒子幫我買了新衛生衣褲，那夜一夢，心繫故鄉及同學們，我隨意記下：

歲末吹寒意

加衫添新衣

還想舊情誼

回到故鄉去

同學二三聚

把酒暢歡敘

如夢似真地

醒時在夢裡 所以我要向所有同學致意，在新的一年，謹以「牛織氣旺，天地順利」祝福大家，既壯又旺，八方順遂，九重得利！

牛轉乾坤郎沖天

織夢寰宇女羅地

氣勢高中八方順

旺網同窗九重利

20090115同學

吳正章敬上

http://picasaweb.google.com/johnsun.hsu3/2008B02#

FozdoIgua伊瓜蘇瀑布的壯美景觀

Andrea Bocelli - Besame Mucho (2006)

每日一笑

My dear friends:

You'd better see this movie while you are sad or hopeless.
值得一看再看的影片


http://hk.youtube.com/watch?v=mu9FPb-TZuk

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Life is so precious!

So this is Xmas

笑笑

調查
一個銀行家結識了一名女演員，經過一段時間的交往，兩人決定結婚。
銀行家擔心女演員的名聲，便匿名請一位私人偵探去調查。
不久收到結果：「該小姐的私人生活堪稱楷模，她是一名大家都稱頌的當之無愧的好人。 只是有一點，她現在同一個銀行界的人關系密切，而這人是一個無賴。」

該你發球
一位年邁但仍然精力旺盛的高爾夫愛好者前去找巫師，詢問天堂上是否有高爾夫球場。
巫師查了半天，終於開口說：「我得到的既有好消息又有壞消息。」
老人說：「先告訴我好消息吧。」
「天堂上有很寬闊的高爾夫球場。」巫師說。
老人接問：「現在告訴我壞消息吧。」
巫師說：「下星期日上午十點就該你發球了！」

實惠
在太太的生日宴會上，丈夫當眾把一顆金光閃爍的寶石贈給了他的夫人。
一位朋友對說：「瞧您夫人多高興啊！如果你送她一輛奔馳汽車，不是更實惠嗎？」
「我也曾這麼想過，」這位丈夫攤開手悄聲對朋友說：「可惜這種轎車目前還沒有假的！」

如果今年沒有年終獎金....我就........